How to Marry anyone you like
Prefacing this by saying that I am not married, I do gym to keep myself fit, strong and healthy but certainly don’t have the Hollywood chiseled body, yet I have never had a problem with attracting the best marriage potentials by physical looks and by character. And I will show you how
Start focusing on becoming the best version of yourself as a Muslim: Leave corn 🌽 and self pleasure. Strengthen your relationship with Allah by praying consistently, reciting Qur’an, and engaging in dhikr. A strong connection with Allah brings barakah into all areas of your life, including marriage. Emphasis on leaving corn because people can tell by your body language and your aura that you are someone that engages in haram behind shut doors. Your iman radiates like a dome of aura which muslims can see and feel and this draws believers to you.
Develop good character: as the Prophet ﷺ said, “The most complete of believers in faith are those with the best character.” (Tirmidhi, Sahih). Work on kindness, patience, and honesty, never backbite and become someone that anyone could trust as these are qualities that naturally draw others to you. You can learn a lot about building good character by reading seerah of the prophets and companions
Pursue self-improvement: by enhancing your skills, education, and emotional intelligence. Take care of your physical health and appearance as part of self-discipline, hygiene and confidence. These are not superficial, but part of presenting yourself well and excelling as a muslim.
Make intentional dua: Ask Allah for an attractive and righteous spouse who will bring you closer to Him. Be consistent and sincere in your duas, trusting in His wisdom.
Lastly, practice tawakkul. Trust that Allah will provide what is best for you at the right time. Do your part to prepare, but leave the results to Him.
Marriage isn’t just about finding the right person; it’s about becoming the kind of person the one you’re seeking would want to marry. An easy way to measure yourself is to think if you were in the opposite gender’s position, would you marry yourself? Just work hard on self-development and trust Allah’s plan.
What’s something you’ve done to grow while waiting for the right person? Let’s share and benefit from one another!