This can't be right

Hi all.

So I have a 1 year old and have been browsing through the nanny and nannyemployer subs because I am ready to go back to work and leave my child in the capable hands of a nanny.

But boy oh boy. The posts have been a complete rabbit hole and frankly I am stunned at the expectations involved in employing a nanny. So based off of my reading of the subs:

• competitive wage based on their identification of it being a luxury service (regardless of the nanny's educational qualifications or investment into bettering themselves professionally)
• PTO (regardless of how much paid leave they have when NPs are on vacation)
• Sick leave
• GH
• holidays off
• healthcare stipend
• mandatory annual col raise
• bonuses
• access to food in np's home
• be allowed to go home early when NPs are back because it's 'awkward'
• have gh and not have to come in to work when relatives are around because 'awkward'
• restrictions on NPs movement in their own homes when they wfh because 'awkward'
• gh when child is unwell and they are unwilling tom provide sick care even though it is a 'luxury' service

Is this about right? Because wow.