Forgive the toxic people in your life

I wanted to say this becz i feel people might need to know

I have seen a lot of toxic people in my life and i hated them but like lord ram said hating others is like holding a peice of hot iron in ur hand ..Forgiveing them is not for them but for u

You might be wondering why i am saying is this ..its becz toxic people are toxic for a reason be it relatives or be it friends and colleagues

Reason 1 : this is the most common one they hate thier lives so they hate others .toxic people wqnt other to suffer becz they themselves are suffering...i used to have a senior in college who used to bully me a lot (ragging) turns out he was gambling addict who lost a lot of money ..i learned about it when he committed suicide....he was taking his frustration on us..i also had professor who used to intentionally fail students turns out he wasgoing through a divorce..

Reason 2 : lack of self esteem now this is a little rare.. everyone needs to feel important..but when people feel less important they become toxic to get important....a best example would be the indian mother in law they get angry at thier DIL just becz they think they lost importance in thier sons life (they can be toxic for other reasons too)..another classic example might be relatives they just want to feel important in the family..or incels on social media

Reason 3 : they just dont know how to behave

My typing skills are terrible so please excuse the mistakes

I also wanted to elaborate about toxic parents and incels but i am lazy