Who travels to who

Question for my fellow men & women:

for first dates, do you usually travel to her area or meet in the middle or closer to you, for dinner?

I live 45 min from downtown where my matches tends to be. I am getting alot of "are you willing to travel to downtown?" when I already suggested somewhere in the middle that's on the subway line.

Reference: 31M, 8/10 on photofeeler attractiveness

Thanks in advance for your responses!