Do women ever appreciate how they don’t have to work as hard in gender relations?

Women have it pretty good when it comes to relationships honestly and definitely have the better end of the stick. They get to go on a dating app, see a almost unlimited amount of options and just pick and choose a guy who’s more than likely desperate for a direct message and choose to go out with him. When they go out, the woman is more than likely not going to pay a dime. You get to meet new people and get a free lunch/dinner and if you really want to, you can just have sex with the guy and have a fun night.

Also, when the relationship starts the man is expected to be the breadwinner anyway. That means he pays for the house and pays most of the bills. You also get to have access to some of his money while being able to keep all your money to yourself. His money is your money and your money remains yours.

Another thing is that when it comes to the really hard stuff like protecting the house. Women aren’t expected to lift a finger (because they’re not as strong). When I had to protect my parent’s house during a fire drill, me, my dad and my brothers all used this giant fire department water hose which was really heavy and exhausting (because we have a big house). The women got to just stay inside and wait.

Men also have to deal with any repair men that may need to fix the house, landlord relations, planning of activities, paying the bills and taxes. Getting into a relationship and maintaining one is essentially another full time job for men since you’re taking care of another human being. I’m not throwing a pity party for men, we have to do the hard things because we’re physically stronger and so it just comes with the territory.

So essentially, unless there’s children involved women really don’t have to do much. Do women even realize this and if so do they appreciate it?