College or ROTC?

hey everyone, i am deciding between 3 possible paths and would like some input. Option one would be college than a civilian job, option 2 would be enlisting in the air force and option 3 would be joining ROTC than becoming an officer. To give more insight in my situation im going to go to school for computer science inspiring to be a software engineer or cyber security. the military option looks enticing free college, bah, health insurance and it would take a lot of worries off my plate but i am married and fear for WLB. My main question is if its worth it with all the benefits or would i be better off going to college and hoping i get a good paying job. If the military route is worth it which path should i take im leaning towards ROTC.