A curse of wealth, youth, and no guidance?

Hi My father passed away when I was 11 and I inherited a lot of money and now I realize that made me have a distorted view of life. Since it gave me an easy option always, and I basically had no idol or guidance. For example, it was always easier to go out with the fake friends since they treat me a little better always and it was fun, but I realized late that that's not how it's supposed to be, the same goes with dating. This way of living made me never pick up any skills of making friends or building a social circle or even finding a partner.

Additionally, when it comes to work, it is very hard to motivate myself. The only job I had was a job that an older half brother got for me as a favor in a show in front of the family that he cares about his younger brother. In reality, I was always alone.

Now that I'm older and a little bit more mature, i realize that there's a compounding effect of all the easy paths that I took and it puts me in a hard position today as a 28-year-old with low skills, low motivation, and high emotional sensitivity but a good amount of wealth (~11M usd).

My question is, whats the way to help someone in your family like your kid or even yourself to build their character up, be less sensitive, build more skills and have motivation while still having wealth?