Questions - fixing the romance system & sim family tree portraits

Hey yall, I have two questions for the community today: 1. What mods do you use for fixing the game's romance system? It annoys me how sims get attracted to other random sims instantly all the time. Pretty much just being in one room with another sim guarantees those pink hearts floating. I don't love constant love letters either (tho I don't mind the gifts as I just sell them lmao). Is there any up-to-date, reliable mod that fixes that? The Retuned Attraction System seems fine, but it removes some things I actually do like. 2. I see people making sim family trees with third-party programs, and their trees always have those clean looking pics with like, one-color backgrounds. How do I achieve that? I normally just press C in CAS if I want to take a pic of my sim, but then the picture has the default CAS background, do I remove it somehow or what? Thanks in advance!