Avoiding cheap Johns as a black SB

Hi just wanna say I’m very thankful for the subreddit.. I’m new here and yall words have gotten me right and have really made me raise my standards (or I guess assumptions) when it comes to sugaring. I’m back in the “bowl” now that I can legally drink and stumbled across this Cheap John. I guess my question is I feel like as a black woman and especially as a black SB we are always undervalued and forced to accept less than our counterparts. Plus men be having weird fetishes .. my question is how do I weed thru the weirdos and cheaps and strike “gold”?

Hi just wanna say I’m very thankful for the subreddit.. I’m new here and yall words have gotten me right and have really made me raise my standards (or I guess assumptions) when it comes to sugaring. I’m back in the “bowl” now that I can legally drink and stumbled across this Cheap John. I guess my question is I feel like as a black woman and especially as a black SB we are always undervalued and forced to accept less than our counterparts. Plus men be having weird fetishes .. my question is how do I weed thru the weirdos and cheaps and strike “gold”?