Sd flaking ghosting

Is this the norm? I’ve texted with probably 4 guys now and every time they agree to my ppm they end up ghosting or flaking out. This one guy last night asked if I was in dire need of the m? I’m like well yeah I do need it and he blocked me. Why are these men on these sites when they aren’t interested in paying anything at all… I’m reporting them. How often do you guys go through this before you meet a good one?