“High maintenance”

So I’m back in the bowl because my last SR had a VERY messy ending and I am feeling SO discouraged by the POTs I’m vetting.

I’m young, black and surgically enhanced (lol) but I dress very well, love louboutins and designer handbags and always have my hair and nails well kept. I don’t rely on sugar to survive, I’ve always used the ££ for savings/career qualifications - I keep meeting POTs who say my “look” is off putting and they think I’ll be too high maintenance for them. The first couple of times they’ve said this I’ve brushed it off as obviously we can’t be for everyone but this is now reoccurring feedback and I feel I’m going crazy. I love to hike, cook, golf etc, I’m not telling them that because I don’t believe in begging a man who’s made up his mind about me but ughhhh

I thought the point of SR’s was it’s a luxury!!!! Sorry for the rant, I’m trying not to internalise