Impossible to Have a Perfect Wedding

my sim just got married but why is it so hard to have a good wedding? the guests barely even want to watch the ceremony. the caterers and staff you hire sometimes just wander off doing God knows what. random sims enter the wedding venue too. a nightmare of an event. is there a way to have better weddings without having to control every single sim? because i’m just going to stop having weddings at this point

• the decor for my wedding is by syboulette