My husband is getting hotter each year and I feel like a frumpy mom…

We’re in our 30s, this is our 10th year together. When we first met I was the more ambitious and adventurous one. I was always a bit overweight but always took care of myself, hair and makeup done, cute clothes, and I had a great personality.

Now I stay at home, and he is the more ambitious one.

I’m still overweight but we workout together weekly.

I no longer bleach my hair or wear makeup and I don’t spend our money on cute clothes.

He always tells me he loves me, he’s affectionate, he tells me I’m beautiful.

But I just feel like a shell of the person I once was. I don’t have the energy I once did. I want to look nice for him, but honestly if I put on a bra for the day and change out of my Jammie’s, it’s a win.

Idk it’s been on my mind a lot lately.

EDIT: for added context, yes I am a mom, of twins and I homeschool them. My partner also works from home so we are all home together all day every day.