Frustrated with sexless relationship.
My GF (20) and I (21) have been together for nearly three years now and have never had sex.
Now that in itself isn’t a problem for me as she has had some sexual trauma in the past. I love her and I am more than willing to wait and support her and she is also in therapy.
Where the main source of frustration comes from for me is the disappearance of our sexual intimacy completely, the most we do is cuddle and hold hands. I don’t feel entitled to more, but I have a high libido and even though I am not frustrated at her in my mind I can’t help but feel dissatisfied. I really don’t want to feel this way and at times i wish i could just cut my meat off…….
We have talked about this multiple times, but there just hasn’t been any improvement for over a year now…. what do I do? Am I being entitled by feeling this way? I just feel guilty being frustrated by something she can’t control/ doesn’t want.