Rhys or Xaden?

I know this isn’t necessarily a Fourth Wing forum, but because it applies to Rhys, I wanted to post it in both places.

As a partner, do you prefer Rhys or Xaden?

I see strengths and weaknesses in both. I’m in love with them for totally different reasons.

I believe Rhys is more mature; however, I do like that Xaden is a bit more protective (despite giving Violet independence).

I like how Rhys and Feyre had a slow burn romance. All of ACOMAF was perfect. However, I like that Xaden and Violet were definitely enemies to lovers.

I just can’t figure out who I would prefer romantically, even though they’re both amazing.

Thoughts?