Found Out My Fiancé Has an Alt Account Here on Reddit

**The other subreddit keeps deleting it so I post it here.

The problem: I have a fiancé (36M), and we've both been Reddit users for a long time. I know his main account, and we often share funny posts or interesting threads with each other. We've always been open with our online activities— or so I thought.

One day, he was showing me something on this particular subreddit, and I noticed the username was different from the one I know. I didn't say anything right then, but I made a mental note of the username. When I got home, I checked the account, and my heart sank. He's been using this alt account to post on R4R subreddits, looking for FWB, hookups, and other casual arrangements. The account has been active for almost two years, and he even had a recent post looking for an "exclusive FWB."

Curious (and hurt), I reached out to someone who had commented on one of his posts, and she confirmed they'd been talking. This has completely blindsided me because he's always been such a "green flag" —loyal, caring, and thoughtful. I would never have suspected he'd do something like this.

Now, I'm terrified. We've been talking about having a baby and have been intimate without protection, and I can't shake the fear that he may have exposed me to something. I haven't confronted him yet because I don't even know where to begin. I feel lost.

What I've tried so far: I'm just crying. So wala pa.

What advice I need: Please tell me what to do. Para akong mababaliw na

UPDATE: The amount of girls messaging me na naka-s*x nila ang Ex-fiancé ko is amazing. Ang dami!