Fiancé is being dishonorably discharged. Am I wrong for wanting to end this engagement?

Burner account because my fiancé is on Reddit sometimes but I’m mostly protecting myself.

My fiancé is being dishonorably discharged. He has zero plans of going to school or getting a job after since he cannot take our federal student loans. Also, nobody is hiring him because of the DD.

Meanwhile I finished college and have a decent job. I feel like he’s guilt tripping me into staying since he’s got nothing left.

I’m in the Army as well but I don’t want to put his business out there to my Chaplain. What would you tell your own Soldier in this situation?