Seeking feedback from Married or Long-Term Couples

As a man married to a asex woman, I am trying hard to understand how and if this marriage can work. In an effort to understand, I would love to hear feedback from other married or long-term couples:

• How many years have you been together?
• How do you initiate sexual activity?
• How often on average does sex happen?
• Is there an positive emotional connection to sex or does it remain a constant source of anxiety?
• How often do you talk about the the state of sex in your relationship?
• Are there body positivity issues in the relationship?
• Did you find a way for both partners to be happy and fulfilled?
• Knowing what you know now, would you marry or date an Asex partner again?