Family's friends and relatives age shaming you during CNY

CNY is just around the corner, and I am sure I will be age shamed by my relatives and family's friends again. Here are some of the common ones:
1)Aiyo, lao char bor (old girl), you're in your mid-30s and still don't have a bf yet; how to get married?
2)Aiyo, lao char bor (old girl), you are in your mid-30s and still collecting angpaos!?

I am not sure if I am the only one who has heard such things, or if Singaporeans' perspectives are same.? I'm genuinely upset by this and stressed over it; if anyone has experienced the same, or worse, how do you deal with such comments?