There’s nothing more sexually frustrating than being a top who can’t reach climax from oral.

I honestly don’t know what to do. My sort of friend/bf just can’t get me to cum from oral, and the fact that I haven’t hit orgasm once with him has become a bit of a sticking point for me. Bottoming seems like a rare occasion sorta thing that rarely happens (he’s never done it, and both of us are apprehensive abt trying), but it’s also the only situation that I’ve consistently reached climax.

I’m bi and straight sex has always been more straightforward and easy to go all the way with. I have less relationship experience with girls and that makes me pretty nervous, but I’m at the point of sexual frustration where I’m considering switching teams permanently pretty much.

Any advice or words of sympathy you guys might have?