My experience with hookups. I'm noticing a trend

As a vers-top (I top most of the time, will bottom for you but just says so before cause preparation takes a longe time) I've been using apps, went to cruising spots and all of that jazz.

I've realized there's a pattern in the men I match with, they're either verses or tops, never strict bottoms. With verses things are good, I mostly top but I'm down to flip fuck or bottom, nothing to complain about. Tops also love me for a peculiar reason, first it may be cause I'm pretty masculine and assertive in bed so I ride you and take control, some are dominant guys used to make the other their cocksleeves and they see me treating them like dildos and get excited. Some "strict tops" also want to flip fuck or bottom for me afterwards. However strict bottoms ghost me saying a real top wouldn't get it up their ass and I'm just a delusional bottom, don't understand why, I both have a dick and an ass why shouldn't I want to use both? But whatever.

I feel like people say it's full of bottoms and not a lot of tops but if you're going to exclude half the population of tops that will bottom sometimes cause it ruins your fantasy then isn't it your problem? Cause I've met bottoms that topped sometimes and they were interested in playing with my ass or let me give them head. They seem like fun guys to be around.