Semi-annual Virgo appreciation post p1
Hello.
Virgo is a very simple sign to understand yet people never seem to quite realize that. I am here to give voice and make space for our misunderstood delicate wall flowers. Aries and Air signs beware this ain't about you.
Efficiency, discernment, and sincerity are core beliefs and nature of all Virgos.
The moment they walk into a room they innately catalogue everything. They see that speck of dust 20 feet away on that black shelf. They feel the temperature is not even throughout the area. Books and clothes are not properly assembled by color, material, or use. Imprints on furniture tell them a whole routine to the minute. They are cognizant of all this in a fraction of a second and when they take another step they are aware of newer devices to analyze. Simultaneously and continuously they are also finding the most efficient solutions for these problems. This is how Virgos interact with the world. This ability is their double edged sword. In practice this usually causes anxiety and the inability to rest or relax. Freak outs are daily.
A Virgo's perception is one of their prides. They feel secure in knowing they are the only few who can see what others cannot. This is also true in their polar opposite; Pisces. Pisces deals with the abstract and infinite esoteric wisdom. Virgo is focused on how things should be done by the book; correctly, strictly and most importantly following all rules. Things should not go out of these boundaries. Hence why they have trouble with intimacy, emotions, and feelings. Those concepts cannot be neatly be confined in categories. Venus falls in Virgo for this very reason. There is no rules for love nor courtship.
To be frank emotions and loud noises spook them and they freeze up like a raccoon in hopes that it will go away soon.
Be extremely clear and concise with the way you communicate information. They will take it literally. The one sure-fire way to get a Virgo on your bad side is to give them false, unreliable, or especially incomplete information. Virgos use all information to plan everything to the minute detail. If their plan is ruined because of your inept ability to convey information they will cut you off like dry or dead leaves to a plant. They now deem you as an unnecessary risk for their growth and can now focus their energy on improving themselves instead of sustaining a dead limb.
They will not get hints and even if they do they won’t know what to do with the that information. The only thing they will get is dry sarcasm dipped in truth. If you want a Virgo to do something just tell or ask them exactly what you want/need, how you want it, and to add an extra umph say it will make you really happy if they did it. Make sure to ask nicely.
If they like you they will do it. If they don’t like you they will say a variation of:
“That is impossible”
“I’m unavailable to complete that at this moment”
or plainly say they don’t want to or growl. Growling means you have no right to ask. Disengage.
Virgos are extraordinarily simple that other people over complicate them. One of the best things about them in my opinion is that they will refuse to have sex with you if they no longer have respect for you. So if that happens it’s over and done.
Please do not criticize them. Whatever it is it will never be worse than what they have already thought of themselves. If you think they do not know I want to tell you they do. They can't stop being the way they are. Instead of criticizing them, crack a joke with them. At first they will make a wide-eyed-bulging-out-of-the-sockets face but believe me that is a signifier they are getting flooded with intangible information that cannot be processed normally. They are realizing someone can like them for their identity.
The moment they nag you about improving your life or current situation is when they see you as someone who can be with them in their future plan. Do not take it for granted. Virgos truly mean well and put massive effort when they care about someone and all they want from you is acknowledgment and a Thank You (also sex).