Need some tips :)
Hi guys, I have no idea what my attachment style is if I'm honest, but I know im far too dependant on my relationship, almost like limerance.
I spent a lot of time picking at everything my partner did until he said he felt like I was trying to make him fit my criteria. I want to stop this, but I get upset/ triggered by small things and can't help but mention it.
Recently I'm working on my own individuality, doing things outside of bothering him, my own self care and hobbies. But my biggest issue is: how do I be less picky as a partner? He says he feels like things always have to be my way or I'm not happy.
He also mentions he often feels he won't be enough for me, he says we ALWAYS are talking about my feelings (he also said this isn't bad it can just get exhausting). I want to be able to enjoy a relationship like a normal person and stop with the overreading, the anxiety, the feeling shitty and pressing over a change of energy ect
Any tips would be appreciated and anything you guys have done to improve too x