Big girth + Curving down

Hi I have a 6,3 * 6,1 inches cock but I’m SUPER curved DOWN. Is that a bad combo? Here is the story:

After an hour of foreplay, I had sex with my girlfriend. I’m so curved down I had to put her legs on my shoulders (or I can’t get in with the angle). After 3 min she was in pain, so of course I stopped. The next day she was still in pain, went to the gynecologist, turns out she had a perineum trauma and needed 3 months of reeducation with a specialist. She burst into tears and kind of hated me and we broke up recently without ever trying it again.

Anyone has a problem like that? What can I do if I’m thick, curved down, and the girl wants face to face position?

I’m afraid future girlfriends will be disappointed if I can do only doggy (it has worked in the past with sexfriends)