We need an active bhojpuri speaking community here

Why tf no one talks these days to a fellow bhojpuri speaker in bhojpuri language? Why we are limiting ourselves to English or Hindi for conversation with a fellow bihari? I mean we should take pride in talking bhojpuri with each other rather than feeling ashamed of it because of some songs being made. Problem starts when person starts harassing any woman in public, rest we all know everyone has a hot desire and bhojpuri songs fulfill it for its listeners. I am a bhojpuriya who enjoys these songs but never endorses it in public in the form of harassment. I think it's really important to keep the language speaking community alive.