i despise xander

i am rewatching buffy and i CANNOT STAND xander?? i think he becomes more weird and obsessive of buffy in season 2, he’s such a tag along, buffys best friend in season 1,2 is willow and he only hangs out with buffy because of willow, he tried to hard and it actually infuriates me, he also objectifies so many girls throughout the show i just hate him