No I don’t want to play step mom

Why is it so hard for men to grasp the idea that when a woman says she doesn’t want kids she even means YOUR kids. No, I don’t want to play step mom, no I don’t want to be involved in the whole baby momma drama.

A guy at my work is pretty persistent on hitting on me and getting my number I said ‘no’ and he looked shocked and I explained why “I don’t have kids & I don’t want to be with someone who does” instead of taking that for what it was. He still kept trying to pursue me….

It’s actually concerning that you want to pursue someone who clearly stated they don’t want to be with you because you have kids like wouldn’t you be worried about me mistreating your kid?? (Not saying that I would!)

Obviously kids can sense when they are not wanted around so why even put them in that predicament?? Kind of ironic how the child free woman cares more about (in theory) your kids well being.