"kids just happen"

A couple months ago, I was explaining to my dad why I never want kids and he said "well, you can't plan for something like that. kids just happen." And told me that getting pregnant by accident and being stuck with an unplanned child is inevitable. PARDON?!?!? I told him that there's condoms, hormonal birth control, morning after pills, and abortions (at least there used to be) so no kids don't "just happen". He acknowledged that those options exist, but doubled down on what he said.

I was kinda floored to hear this because my parents are exactly the kind of people that should have never had children - like ever. To think that they subjected me to trauma all because they were so careless that they couldn't wrap a fuckin willy? Hearing him say that pissed me off so bad. It was the dumbest statement I've ever heard and I can't believe people actually think this way.