Why does everyone on here demand?

Not everyone, but almost every time I see a dude on here in the comments, they're so demanding. What happened to subtlety. What happened to the long game? Go too fast and you'll scare them away. Betas wants to jump in 100% right off the bat (not speaking for everyone). Invest in them and drag them down in the process. Won't that video of her with writing all over her body saying the most vile thing be so much sweeter when you know you've earned it?