I can’t keep refreshing my curls everyday

I have 2C/3A hair and it looks totally fine on the first day but as soon as I go to sleep (with a silk bonnet) it simply turns into a wreck. It’s so bad that I’ve been rewetting and styling my hair every single day for months on end. I use leave in conditioner, curl cream, and gel. It’s getting so time consuming and I can’t take it anymore. Any tips?

Going into this community I realized that most people that face this problem have 2C/3A as well, now I’m wondering if I were to finger coil all my hair would it last? Compared to my non-finger coiled hair which has a looser pattern.

Update: I just straightened my hair out of rage 😭 (there goes the 1 year no heat streak) I love my hair curly/wavy way more but at this point I’d rather to the routine for special occasions and just straighten my hair once a week

Update 2: For anyone that wanted to know, since I posted this I’ve straightened my hair every week and haven’t gone back