Do girls test guys this way?
I[35m]went out on a 2nd date with a girl [33F] last weekend. Our first date was actually 2 years ago and she told me she only felt friend vibes when I asked if she wanted to see each other again, but we had rematched months later and decided to go to the beach.
We ended up taking my boat to a small island just 300m from the beach, it was sick. The overcast cloudy day completely cleared out, and we had the island to ourselves to sit back, enjoy the sun and go swimming. The rest of the date went well too, I was making her laugh and we were having good conversation for the whole date. Compared to the first date, I was able to bring a more confident, funny and interesting version of myself
I told her that I wanted to see her again and invited her to come over and have dinner at my house sometime midweek. She mentioned that it would be difficult to have a midweek date since she's quite busy, so i took it as a maybe.
The next day(monday evening) I sent her a small text thanking her thanking her for rowing us back, and that I had a great time, then proceeded to ask if I could make dinner for her this Friday night. She responded Tuesday morning saying "Hey, my week is pretty full, how bout another time. I'm still very interested in martial arts". During the date, she said she'd be interested in trying martial arts when I talked to her about my passion for jiujitsu and muaythai, showing her afew techniques standing up and on the ground.
In my true honest opinion, the date went as successfully as it could, minus the fact I didn't try to kiss her(just cuddled)... in asking her to dinner, I just really wanted her to say yes. If she wasn't interested in seeing me again, I imagine she would have told me directly in her response that she is not interested/only wants to be friends? Like the first postdate text I sent her.
So what I am wondering is, do girls hold off on immediately making plans again with a guy that they know is into them, to test how crazy/invested/needy a guy is? I don't need to talk to a girl I'm seeing all week, but it would just be nice to know where she stands aswell emotionally. Again, the fact that she said we can 1)reschedule and 2)she's interested in trying out my hobby with me, gives me some hope that I actually have a chance. So far I haven't texted her since Tuesday. All I can do is wait for her to reach out closer to the end of the wkd.
Please advise