I’m thinking of leaving the other subreddit

At first I was glad when I found people who could relate to the same struggles as I have but lately, I’ve been seeing people spiraling a lot and just having straight up paranoia. Also another thing is the constant reassurance. It’s literally in the rules yet people still won’t stop reassuring others. I made a comment on a post asking if they’ll be sick saying that in order to overcome this fear you shouldn’t ask for reassurance. And the whole point is to come to terms with the fact that even if you DO throw up, you’ll be okay. I already got downvoted. Is anyone else feeling this way? Am I in the wrong?