When Susan Bednars Husband was called as an Apostle by Hinckley, he called her 'Martin' when questioning him as to why she couldn't tell their children about the news.
I saw this clip in a Nemo video and had to find out more about it, because its much worse when fully played out. It's from 2017 taking about his great accession into Apostleship.
Lord Bednar was summoned to come see Hinckley on short notice, which he obliged and went to the Joseph smith building the next day. Darth Bednar got to meet with Hinckley for nearly an hour while his poor wife had to wait around by herself.
Without consulting his wife on a life changing event, he agreed to join the celestial mens all star team. After telling Susan of the minor change about to happen to the both of them, she showed for a fleeting second of human emotion and said she didn't think she could so this.
David Ass Bednar also told Susan that they could not tell any of their children, when confronted with this Susan asked David Tool Bednar several times with her motherly instincts again as to why.
Susan Bednar's husband barked back at her and called her "Martin" for questioning his grand priesthood manhood.
David I'm a tool Bednar played it down but it's damning evidence that he's a fucking piece of shit and a horrible husband. Not allowing his wife to have any say in this life changing decision.
The clip starts at 12:19 and goes till about 15:00 so you don't have to watch a second more of this Tool.