How to be a Femboy (Femininity 101)
Step 1: Acting feminine
"Embrace ur feminine side!!!"
How to Do It:
- Be Expressive: Talk with your hands, laugh loudly, and let your emotions shine. No more "I’m fine" when you’re clearly not.
- Practice Empathy: Listen actively, validate others’ feelings, and drop "I feel you" like confetti.
- Be nurturing: Take care of ur loved ones and make sure everyone is doing well. Check on ur friends, siblings and pets and show them love if they need it :3
Pro Tip: Watch Sailor Moon for max efficiency inspiration. Your vibe attracts your tribe. 🌙
Step 2: Low-key Changes (Even If You’re Closeted)
"Femme in secret? I gotchu."
Closeted-Friendly Hacks:
- Grow Your Hair: Say it’s because you like the look or "just trying something new."
- Shave Secretly: Smooth legs/arms hidden under jeans or hoodies. No one needs to know.
- Femme Underwear: Swap boxers for panties (they’re comfy AF).
- Thigh-Highs Under Pants: Sneaky euphoria boost. And no one will ever know >:3
Pro Tip: Use unscented lotion post-shave to avoid suspicion. "It’s for dry skin, mom!"
Step 3: Makeup Magic (Start Small)
"Eyeliner = cheat code"
Beginner Kit:
- Concealer: Hide dark circles (because sleep is a myth).
- Eyeliner: A wing or smudged look. Messy is cute.
- Lip Gloss: Clear or pink—bonus points for sparkle.
Step 4: Femme Fashion
"All clothing is unisex if you stop being a bitch about it" 😭
Starter Pack:
- Skirts: Start with a pleated mini or skater skirt. Spinny = mandatory.
- Crop Tops: Pair with high-waisted jeans for snatched waist illusion.
- Leggings: Show off those Mewtwo build from leg day.
- Accessories: Chokers, hair clips, or a pastel scrunchie. Extra points for cat ears.
Pro Tip: Thrift stores = gold mines for cheap, cute finds.
Step 5: Body Glow-Up (Snatched & Soft)
"Twink build in progress"
How to Do It:
- Booty Workouts: Squats, hip thrusts, and aggressively vacuuming in thighhighs.
- Waist Focus: Core workouts + posture checks (stand tall, pookie).
- Skin Care: Moisturize daily for that soft glow.
- Phytoestrogen Foods: Effectiveness debated by experts But a win is a win.
Pro Tip: Add a tiny waist trainer under outfits for instant cinching.
Final Note: Femininity is YOURS to Define
There’s no "right way" to be femme. Want to rock muscles with a skirt? GO FOR IT. Prefer pastel hoodies and sneakers? Also fire Your femininity is about what makes you feel confident, cute, and happy.
Remember:
- Progress > Perfection: U won't look like the top post of r/femboy and thats ok
- Judgement free: Someone judges you? distance urself from them (if possible)
- Celebrate You: Every step counts, even if it’s just 1%.