How to be a Femboy (Femininity 101)

Step 1: Acting feminine

"Embrace ur feminine side!!!"

How to Do It:

  • Be Expressive: Talk with your hands, laugh loudly, and let your emotions shine. No more "I’m fine" when you’re clearly not.
  • Practice Empathy: Listen actively, validate others’ feelings, and drop "I feel you" like confetti.
  • Be nurturing: Take care of ur loved ones and make sure everyone is doing well. Check on ur friends, siblings and pets and show them love if they need it :3

Pro Tip: Watch Sailor Moon for max efficiency inspiration. Your vibe attracts your tribe. 🌙


Step 2: Low-key Changes (Even If You’re Closeted)

"Femme in secret? I gotchu."

Closeted-Friendly Hacks:

  • Grow Your Hair: Say it’s because you like the look or "just trying something new."
  • Shave Secretly: Smooth legs/arms hidden under jeans or hoodies. No one needs to know.
  • Femme Underwear: Swap boxers for panties (they’re comfy AF).
  • Thigh-Highs Under Pants: Sneaky euphoria boost. And no one will ever know >:3

Pro Tip: Use unscented lotion post-shave to avoid suspicion. "It’s for dry skin, mom!"


Step 3: Makeup Magic (Start Small)

"Eyeliner = cheat code"

Beginner Kit:

  1. Concealer: Hide dark circles (because sleep is a myth).
  2. Eyeliner: A wing or smudged look. Messy is cute.
  3. Lip Gloss: Clear or pink—bonus points for sparkle.

Step 4: Femme Fashion

"All clothing is unisex if you stop being a bitch about it" 😭

Starter Pack:

  • Skirts: Start with a pleated mini or skater skirt. Spinny = mandatory.
  • Crop Tops: Pair with high-waisted jeans for snatched waist illusion.
  • Leggings: Show off those Mewtwo build from leg day.
  • Accessories: Chokers, hair clips, or a pastel scrunchie. Extra points for cat ears.

Pro Tip: Thrift stores = gold mines for cheap, cute finds.


Step 5: Body Glow-Up (Snatched & Soft)

"Twink build in progress"

How to Do It:

  • Booty Workouts: Squats, hip thrusts, and aggressively vacuuming in thighhighs.
  • Waist Focus: Core workouts + posture checks (stand tall, pookie).
  • Skin Care: Moisturize daily for that soft glow.
  • Phytoestrogen Foods: Effectiveness debated by experts But a win is a win.

Pro Tip: Add a tiny waist trainer under outfits for instant cinching.


Final Note: Femininity is YOURS to Define

There’s no "right way" to be femme. Want to rock muscles with a skirt? GO FOR IT. Prefer pastel hoodies and sneakers? Also fire Your femininity is about what makes you feel confident, cute, and happy.

Remember:
- Progress > Perfection: U won't look like the top post of r/femboy and thats ok - Judgement free: Someone judges you? distance urself from them (if possible) - Celebrate You: Every step counts, even if it’s just 1%.