How did everyone cope while waiting?

I’m very new to the fandom as I’ve apparently been living under rock and just discovered the series this month. I completely DEVOURED all 3 books over the last 11 days and I can’t imagine having to wait until 2026/2027 for the next book especially after such a cliffhanger (though I understand why we must wait) - I just want Violet and Xaden to have their HEA!

So genuine question, how did everyone manage while waiting between books without you head exploding lol