1st/3rd person life sim with decent to good graphics

I've been researching for a while for this and found results that scratch the itch but still not satisfied as I want something that's fun with longevity and not a game to get bored of in a short time. I'm not also a fan of game being constrained to certain setting like it revolving around simulating one single thing or being only in medieval/fantasy settings.

What I'm looking for is not the Sims 4 or Minecraft or Rimworld or dwarf fortress or Project Zomboid.

I'm looking for an in-depth life sim that is also in 1st/3rd person with any decent graphics above Minecraft/Dwarf Fortress level.

I've came across some titles but none actually click perfectly so curious to know what you think.

Here's what I've compiled so far (I know the "simulator" titles are heavy on this list but they are not an indicator that they're what I'm looking for it's just a way of trying to convey the concept of what I mean):

Skyrim (with mods)
Cyberpunk 2077
RDR2
Mount & Blade 2: Bannerlord
Kenshi
Streamer Life Simulator 2
My Summer Car
Internet Cafe Simulator 2
Animal Crossing: New Horizons
Starfield
The Forest