Great spots to meet people and maybe even a nice guy? 31/F

I’ve been in the area for about 18 months now and I’ve made no friends and the online dating scene is god awful (no surprises there).

I have yet to find a film club to join, are there any around town?

I’m not really into the typical bar scene and haven’t had much luck in the few places I’ve gone to. Maybe I just haven’t been to the right ones.

I enjoy deep conversations about art, science, politics and philosophy. I like a good karaoke spot or a place that I can dance at. I know it’s a stretch but are there any places that play older music? I’m talking Motown, soul, funk, or even something like David Bowie or 1980s pop? — That’s not to say I don’t enjoy modern music. I do, it’s just the vintage stuff requires more moves than just the regular old bumpin and grindin 😂

I’m just looking for some like minded folks who are looking for something a little deeper than the shallow offerings most places seem to be offering. I’m over hook ups, situationships and men who don’t mean a word they say or can’t back it up with follow through and actions. So many people are closed off with either their own friend groups or their phones that even making friends seems hopeless.

Or if these places don’t exist, is there anybody else open to the idea of making a places like these? I have to know I’m not the only one feeling disconnected and longing for community. Anyways any advice or suggestions is greatly appreciated.