I have no tolerance after being a hairstylist

After 9 years as a hairstylist, I feel like I’ve just gotten so over people. The things clients complain about or dump on you can feel so tone-deaf and out of touch with reality sometimes. And we’re expected to act like we deeply care, but honestly, my job is to do your hair—not to be your therapist.

I’m an extreme introvert, and I know other introverts will get this—it can be so exhausting having to constantly engage with people, especially when you just want some peace and quiet. I swear I’m a kind-hearted person, but some clients really rub me the wrong way, and it’s hard to fake it. Honestly, the only part of my job I truly love is being my own boss and making my own schedule. The rest? Not so much.

I know people will say, “Fire the clients who don’t bring you joy,” but let’s be real—girl’s gotta eat, and I’m not so overbooked that I can afford to fire people left and right.

Does anyone else feel this way? Am I being dramatic? I even offer silent appointments, but barely anyone takes me up on it. Why am I attracting all the Chatty Kathys? As an introvert, I just want to do your hair, enjoy some quiet, and chill.

At the end of the day, it’s not my job to be your therapist and I can just feel myself losing my patience and tolerance. Anyone else in the same boat?