Army of lies

So I’ve been getting harassed for a couple years now. Regarded as things I’m not, called all types of slurs, threatened with harm and made to fear being framed. It’s happened at jobs, in school, in my own home from my own family. My family has been real passive aggressive mumbling insults under their breath and then denying it when confronted. The situations at work are more aggressive and I’ve struggled to hold a job. I recently had someone describe a private interaction I had with myself in the privacy of my bedroom so I was apparently recorded without consent and it’s now circling around. I thought moving would help but I discovered that someone added themselves to my “find my iPhone” and had been tracking my location. As much as I’d like to hope that this number has been the source, the fact that my entire family participates really concerns me. It all seems to be attempts to humiliate me and make me feel shame, how much this negativity has gained traction really dwindles any hope I have for a good future. The story that fuels it seems to involve painting 12 yr old me as monstrous, using a sliver of truth and an army of lies to paint the situation has horrible as possible.

The best advice I’ve been given is to prove it but I don’t know how to without violating peoples rights and privacy which I don’t want to do.

(Edit) May involve the abuse of power from ex police.