how do INTJs feel about long distance relationships??
how do INTJs feel about LDR in general? feasible or nah?
- isfp here, we met as exchange students, and got involved end of november. i think the lack of time left made us take things faster than what we’re used to
- our “relationship” was supposed to end when he left for vacation (near the end of december), but in a twist of events i went as well. he proposed we get a hotel together (even if that meant cancelling his booked accommodations)
- before leaving we both agreed we wouldn’t pursue the relationship when the trip ended bc of logistics (he lives 5h away by train, 8h by car), precedent (his last relationship 2 years ago failed bc of this), and uncertainty (i have never tried LDR)
- however, i caught feelings during the trip haha… but i knew it wouldn’t change the outcome, and it didn’t
edit ; ty for everyone who answered :) i know that logically speaking, LDR is a big commitment - especially for people who are unsure of how they feel and what they want.
to my biggest surprise, he brought up the idea of coming to visit me next month. i’m even more confused about where we stand now but i guess we’ll see if it actually happens and how it goes. :)