My iPhone has been stuck for 8 hours 😭

I have searched the internet for a solution for this to no avail 🙁

I just got my new phone (I’ve never had a brand new one before so this was exciting!) but it’s been nothing but frustrating

When im trying to do the set up and data transfer I can only get as far as having to do an update (which seems crazy to have to do on a brand new phone??)

It was stuck on this screen for 8 hours - what am I doing wrong? 😭