What kind of comparison is it ? NM interview with BR

So, in the interview of Nithya Menen with BR, around the 31min mark he tries to compare Toxic Masculine violence with women portraying roles where they are in a live in relationship, pre martial sex, Kids without marriage. I'm still confused here. I felt he is trying to somehow compare a regressive idea of masculinity with role of a progressive women, do let me know your understanding of the same. https://youtu.be/rXcgTZbgZyA?si=D64vLhEk2fy2HVfc