Pa divorce and lawyer not helping

My wife of 13 years abandoned our marriage and ran off in 2021. I waited a year and filed for divorce. My lawyer said we needed a post nup. because we both had 401ks. This is where my ex stopped cooperating, stopped any and all communication, as well as block anyone trying to contact her.

This is where we stand, “FOR 2 YEARS” My attorney says there’s nothing that can be done, actually said “it can sit like this forever”. “Until she decides to answer her attorney” It’s been 2 years, is there anything I can do? Isn’t there a law saying its automatic after an amount of time, in truth she is doing this just to be vindictive