To the girl who takes my place

I want to know youre going to give this man all that you got. Actually, you need to bring more than that. I do hope youre not expecting for him to entertain you like his stories do. Please dont be dumb amd expect a free ride. Theres a few things you should keep in mind, and dont waste time thinking you will discover things as time flies by. I dont have to point out how amazing his is. He is true work of art. More like an anomaly in so many ways. Dont take offense to this. Dont try to compete, youll lose and end up bitter. Embrace him as he is. There will come a time when his standards are unreachably high, like nothing is ever good enough. Just know, thats not 100% true. His critique and criticism may come across as cold and harsh. Its on you and your abilty to see that hes trying to bring out your best. Hes an excellent speaker, he can talk to anyone, any time on any topic. People of all walks of life gravitate to him. Dont be jealous or cause a seen. He cannot control this, its just happens. This man will not stop what ever he is doing if he feels you will see him lesser of a man. Hell work him self til hes compeltely depleted. Recoginze this, but dont try to stop him. But be prepared with calmness, good food and a comfy bed. Understand his stories, what is being said, is telling you more than just those words. Hes telling you everything you need to know to properly take care of him and make your love be known. Just like most men, hes a big baby if he catches a cold. Hell drive you nuts as he lays in bedding swearing hes dying, he sees the light. Tend to him as if he was your child.
He hasnt been on top of taking care if his health, hes rarely seen a doctor until recently. His ailment list is longer than he lets on. Make sure you are up to date with his regimen.
He is in constant pain. From his toes to the top if his head. Hes dealt with this since before we met, hes trying now to change that, but he rarely lets is agony surface and be seen. Hes an early riser, always has been. So before you go to bed each night, have his coffee set and have his necessities ready for him to leave for work in the morning. He loves watching movies, at home, on the couch, with your head on his lap. Get the snacks and drinks ready before he gets up for them. His choice in movies are pretty wacked. It wont kill you to watch them all the way threw. He loves to laugh, im sure you know. Pranking each other in the most ridiculous manner makes his day, his week, dont stop laughing with him. Most of all, thank him often for him being him and doing all that he does. Hes easily bruised and feelings hurt when hes not reassured that hes making good choice by letting you get close. Hes very insecure with a tough guy act. Dont get carried away, hell take it to heart. He wont forget, and it tears him apart. Talk to him every day. Tell him all of your thoughts, no matter how mundane. Keep him a top prioroty at all costs. Dont ever leave him out or make him feel you forgot all about him. Dont nag him. Hell clean the house for you and do the laundry and grocery shopping, and not say a word. Dont let him do that, his work is harder than he lets on. Dont expect his to pull his weight or contribute to the house. If you dont like the womens assignment, might want to leave now. He was raised on a solid foundation and some morals/standards wont falter. He wont ever say "thats womens work", but he values being head of the house, and you being the one to run the house.
When it feels like hes keeping you locked in a cage, understand that is not is intent. His mind contantly races with wonders and doubts. If he knows youre home, safe and taken care if, its one less thing to crowd his mind. When youre apart, keep him posted to whats going on and where you may be. He treasures that, and its not to be controlling. Hes been abandoned to depths you cant imagine.
Hes a fragile boy, unsure of everything, with big hopes and bigger dreams, made of steel ready to take on an army. Take better care of him than i did. Its a million little things that will set you apart. I cant give you all my knows, maybe hell tell you. Just be real and take care of him.