Has anyone ever got their LO?

By definition is an LO someone you cant have? Does it have to be unrequited?

What does getting your LO (properly - mind body and soul) feel like? Is that just love? Or are we in love with a fantasy that even the LO themselves can never be?

Most of us I imagine think getting the LO would be the answer to our problems. But are we so messed up that even that cant make us happy?