(Interracial Couples) Dear Chinese men and Malay women
I must preface this before continuing by saying I do not mean to offend anyone! I am truly sorry if I have as that is not my intentions
I (19F) have a chinese boyfriend (22M). I’ve been in a chinese primary school, know how to speak chinese and have been in a chinese majority environment for 3/4 of my life. I have never really had the guts to date chinese men until recently when I have been getting more praises looks-wise and personality-wise because I always hear from other malaysian men (malay/chinese/indian) that they just prefer chinese girls.
I think my questions are just: 1. What are the troubles in terms of religion/race/family do interracial couples face?
What is different from malay/chinese men (personality wise)? [I think some are misunderstanding this question, and I would understand why, I did not expect so many responses so you may ignore this question!]
To chinese men, do you like malay women? Would you date one?
To malay women, do you like chinese men? Would you date one?
ps. I do not have a preference of race/religion, i just like kind men :)
edit: all your responses are so kind, i will reply when my classes are over ! I am not that religious per se, I do pray and fast and not eat pork/go clubbing but I do not wear the hijab, i drink sometimes and i am definitely not a virgin. But my relatives are very religious, forcing my family to follow them as well, if I do end up marrying a chinese man, if he has to convert, I don’t intend on forcing him to uphold any islamic duties unless his heart wants to !
edit pt2: please dont ask for my socmed/phone, I do not intend to cheat on my boyfriend thank you