I just want to share

What the actual fuck is wrong with men. So I'm heading to town got in a matatu and it was barely full I'm just busy minding my business and a guy sits next to me. He was old for sure and had a stench. So I couldn't switch sits because now at that time the bus was already full. So tuko Thika road traffic imeshika cars are not moving, I just want to get to town do my business and go back home. Then boom the guy starts occupying his seat. Yk the way guys panua their legs when sitting, like that. Ok, by now you have an idea of where I'm heading with this. So I'm like ok let me move and give the guy space. I don't like confrontation and it's public vehicle so yk comfort is not really an option. I was sitted at a window seat. I opened the window a bit because of the stench. Tbh I'm not a confident person, idk how to stand up for myself. I'm a coward ok. But I just don't understand what I was communicating to this man that made him think he can touch himself while next to me. I'm literally wearing baggy pallazos with a hoodie. My hair is barely done it's just those outfits you put on for a quick errand. I didn't talk to him, I didn't look at him in a suggestive way. So I really don't understand. He kept widening his feet, moving his hands like he's just busy and his acting like hajui kenye anafanya. I tried wriggling at least I create space but still nothing. He kept touching himself mpaka tukafika stage. And rn I'm just here crying feeling all sorts of things. I wish I stood up for myself tbh but I just couldn't. Constantly having to experience this is just emotionally draining, you're either dealing with them kwa barabara, at work hadi kanisa like dammit give me a break. If you're man reading this just do better.