Baby Daddies in Nairobi - ASSEMBLE!

I was with a patient-friend today, and I asked three questions. He answered. Then, he allowed me to post it here. He'll be listening to y'all, and he wants to know if anyone shares his experience. He is not beefing, just speaking up.

Q. Why are you not talking to your baby mama? A. She decided not to talk to me, for whatever reason - I don't know.

Q. Why are you not seeing your child? A. She also decided that I won't see her, for whatever reason - I don't know.

Q. Why are you not paying for your child's needs? A. I don't see my child. No access, no money.

Q. What is your relationship with your baby mama? A. Irreconcilable. I am seeing someone else, and I don't think mimi na baby mama can see each other that way - like kitambo.

CONTEXT: 1. When he first got news of the pregnancy, he wanted her to terminate. But she didn't. 2. He came around the idea of having a child. Saw her (baby mama) before she delivered, gave her some money for a list she had written of baby stuff. 3. Saw the baby at 5 months, and again at 1 year, and then before she turned 2. 4. Has sent money before, but stopped sending when it was clear that he wasn't going to see her (the child) again. 5. Says whenever he asked to see the baby, the baby mama brought up the fact that he didn't want her, and therefore anakosa kumuona. Happened from time to time. 6. Never done a DNA test.

That's the much I can post. Now talk, he will listen.