Newborns are hard

My son was born over a week ago and damn the feeding schedule is ROUGH they said every two hours ish and to wake him to eat, so like when do we sleep, me and my wife tried to exclusively breastfeed but I felt really bad for her so I took some shifts with formula so she could sleep but everytime we put him in the crib he cries an hour later, it’s especially rough in the nighttime, it’s a 50/50 he’ll actually stay in the crib for like two hours or 1:30 hrs, we do burp him and such fell like he ain’t like it