My husband completely disregarded what I said and fucked up my shower.

I'm pregnant and desperately wanted a bathtub but there wasn't one in mine and my husband's house so we had to do some mild renovations. We tore out the shower and I stalled a tub and I decided I wanted to tile the walls around the tub, but to save money I was going to do it myself.

This project started when I was 34 weeks pregnant, I'm currently 37 weeks. Most of the down time spent not working on the shower was because I was waiting ony husband to help with certain things that to just can't physically do while pregnant or other reasons.

Im short, not even a full 5ft and my husband is over 6ft so I needed him to tile the top part of the walls. I tilled about 80% of the shower after doing tons of research and had very little issues with application, I just genuinely could not reach the top and it's not safe for me to be on a step ladder at the moment so I asked my husband to help.

I showed him how to do it but it's like he just decided that he knew better even tho he's never tiled anything, doesn't even work on construction or anything related to renovation, never watched a tutorial, just decided he knew better.

My part of the shower isn't perfect but at least it looks okay, his part is all kinds of bowed out because he half-assed most of it and just kept saying "nobody can see up here but me" "it's over your head so you'll never notice" and other stupid shit along those lines. I know we decided to do the project ourselves instead of hiring a person so it's not going to be perfect but he didn't even try to make it look decent.

I'm so pissed off because he refused to listen to any tips and argued with me when I did over half of the shower entirely on my own, and he'd never done it before. He's been pissing me off a lot cause it's like he doesn't think anything I say matters. I'm hoping this feeling of rage and anger towards him passes after our second child is born, or maybe he'll get his shit together by then cause he used to never act like this, just recently.

EDIT: The tub was my husband's idea, I wanted one but was going to wait as long as he would rub my back but he didn't want to because he prefers to go right to bed as soon as we get in the bedroom. Also he said when we had a bathtub with my first pregnancy I always felt better so he told me to buy one and he would install it that weekend. I was less than 20 weeks pregnant at this point I think. He put off the installation until I was 34 weeks pregnant and then was mad at me that I couldn't do the full tiling by myself. I lost most of my ability to balance after 30 weeks so I cannot stand on an already unsteady step stool/ladder to tile the top part on my own.